被小公司收回口头 offer 求安慰。。。

其实你们都没什么错，对方公司想招的人和你不匹配罢了。他们迫切的需要一个人来接替上一个vendor的位置，你不能立即答应他们他们肯定会move on的。如果你站在他们的角度想想，其实也make sense。
另外不止是小公司，大公司取消offer的事儿也不少见。
祝面试顺利

大家好，我来更新一下。HM周六都回邮件，大家只需要看第二段就好了。。。

啊有人知道能怎么删帖么。。。
回复就是这样的：

Thank you so much. That’s very kind and professional of you to say. We really enjoyed getting to know you and I am sorry that it didn’t work out in the end.

If its ok, I will offer you a little advice on how to avoid a situation like this in the future. When it became clear to our team that you were waiting on another job opportunity, that told us that our offer was not sufficient for your needs (either financially or otherwise) and that you needed to see if a better offer would be available in the coming week. Clearly, you need a job that you are excited and comfortable with completely and we need someone that is completely confident in the opportunity we’re offering (which ensures their longevity). So because of that, we no longer felt that this was a good fit.

I hope that helps as you pursue other opportunities in the future. You seem to be a very talented individual and I’m sure you’ll do very well. We wish you the best. Thanks again for your time.

另外求版主删除32-33层（如果可以的话，新人完全找不到删帖的办法啊orz

很多小公司就是这么吊。
我的经历：面一家时薪20的美国人为主的数据分析公司，一路得到的都是积极评价，眼看着要去onsite了，但突然拿了另一家小公司的offer。于是给这家hr发邮件问能不能加快面试速度，写得非常有礼貌。结果5分钟后就收到据信。。。不过现在想来没去成也是好事，这种公司根本就做不到尊重员工。
楼主要相信，更好的在后面。

AugLily 发表于 2016-4-9 23:17
啊有人知道能怎么删帖么。。。
回复就是这样的：

真是神逻辑，照他这说法，学校也都别遵守415协定了，3天不接offer必有二心，拉出去砍了

SallyWu 发表于 2016-4-9 23:26
很多小公司就是这么吊。
我的经历：面一家时薪20的美国人为主的数据分析公司，一路得到的都是积极评价，眼 ...

卧槽，你这也行？也不知道那么拽的理由是什么。。。

renli3000 发表于 2016-4-9 23:55
真是神逻辑，照他这说法，学校也都别遵守415协定了，3天不接offer必有二心，拉出去砍了

是啊，果然我当时的预感就是对的，一定要在电话上非常非常激动地答应了才算完，但是我也不想到时毁约败人品，更何况下周排得太满根本没时间去上班，所以也是。。唉

jeff_xu001 发表于 2016-4-9 13:48
不用说工资的事情，记得，这个是一个客套或者是礼仪性的邮件， not the descriptive one

BTW， 英文不 ...

谢谢回复，还是不够精简，以后会注意的。。。