【2和3属于马后炮了,身在其中很难想通】
1.Hiring freeze,teammatch,有太多东西是不可控,人只能在自己有控制的范围内做到最好。如何呢,冷静分析差距,制定战术再implement。就像在公司干活一样:design,review, implement。
2. 和想象的结果不一样不一定是失败。没去到想去的地方这几个月的准备中获得的进步不也是收获么。
3. 重要的是过程。lz接到电话,听到想去的狗家面试轮过了到最后听到expect offer in your email the next business day. 和想象中的狂喜完全不一样,异常的冷静,甚至在听到面试过了的时候还有一丝丝怅然若失。然后,就第一次体会到了科比球衣退役时说的,The Dream Is The Journey - "Those times when you get up early and you work hard. Those times you stay up late and you work hard. Those times when you don't feel like working. You're too tired. You don't want to push yourself, but you do it anyway. That is actually the dream." - Kobe 到现在回想起来这件事最幸福的时候完全不是拿到offer的时候,而是在各种地儿和hard缠斗的时光。重要的是过程。写着写着上纲上线了啊哈哈,共勉个科比演讲当这段经历的收获吧https://www.youtube.com/shorts/ThlxzwOck9Q