宅女还能谈恋爱吗？

楼主想找吗？既然发帖说明是想找的，想找那就去改变现状啊，宅着等天赐良缘是个小概率事件

现在已经完成脱单了吗

哎莫说那么多，什么圈子小什么不认识人都是自己抗拒的借口，我就现在直接说，你这么想谈，那来和我谈个恋爱嘛，来不来嘛？

找工作还得自己去投去面，主动给的都是诈骗，找对象也差不多一个道理

找对象比找工作残忍多了，看原生家境看脸看收入看生活圈层，工作能layoff，感情里吃亏可是能到毁人生地步的，早点开始试错学习是王道，那些感情里拿到好处的，大部分初高中异性缘就已经很好了。

我认识的宅男宅女结婚，要么是打游戏认识的，要么是同事关系。

sun090807 发表于 2026-4-13 19:57
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2050 年了，叔叔

acheirs 发表于 2026-04-14 16:16:27
2050 年了，叔叔

不然用漂流瓶吗

Someone above mentioned that the introverted people they know who got married either met through games or were colleagues. That's actually a pretty useful data point to work with.

The mistake homebodies often make is thinking they need to become extroverted to find someone. You don't. You just need to find situations where repeated natural contact happens, which is exactly what colleagues and online games provide. You're not forcing yourself to network at events, you're just showing up in spaces you'd be in anyway, and meeting someone who's also there for the same reason.

Other versions of this that work well: competitive games with voice chat, Discord servers for hobbies you're already into, book clubs or hiking groups organized around something you actually care about, or even just mutual friends from existing connections. The key is recurring contact with the same people, not one-off introductions.

As a homebody you probably have interests you go deep on. The best match is usually someone who shares that depth on something, even if they're different from you in other ways. Lean into that instead of trying to be someone you're not on apps.

如果想谈恋爱建议从身边人找起，最好是同好（共同性趣爱好）；如果想相亲（结婚为目的），那很难了，可以多看看博主鳌烨（抖音小红书有账号），评估一下自己的择偶定位