研究生明年毕业 妈妈突然生病

我朋友就是这个病走了，半年。现在还有一个认识的还在跟病魔抗争，两年了。我觉得想救麻麻最好的办法是争取能在美国治疗，这样也许能延长甚至是治愈，这就必须依靠你的英文水平，回国内并不能帮助到你妈妈！

angelqiqizhu 发表于 2017-9-29 11:12
嗯，父母再说不用回来我也明白他们肯定是想我在身边的。我现在还有个想法是，以前学校说如果下学期全选网 ...

恩，总之保持乐观。其实虽然美国医疗条件更好一点，可是我觉得你妈妈即使来到美国治疗，她也绝对不会比在国内开心，反而会很无聊。在国内亲戚啥的也可以帮忙照顾照顾，朋友也可以经常去看一下，精神状态也会更好。不过多了解一下肯定没错的。楼主，加油。。

身体是最重要的，希望楼主妈妈能够早日康复，楼主也要注意身体，保持身心健康，学习工作钱财都不及好身体呀

angelqiqizhu 发表于 2017-9-29 11:35
还怕被骗，不知道us news排名想best rated cancer center是不是权威

我感觉肯定还是赶紧回国去最好的医院治疗比较好 你父母没有美国医保 这个病也不是去急诊看的急症没办法强闯急救室 在美国没有PPO医保医疗费用会爆炸的

回国的话 癌症治疗基本都是按照指南来进行 国内最好的医院基本和美国是一个标准

Melinda1168 发表于 2017-9-29 13:15
我朋友就是这个病走了，半年。现在还有一个认识的还在跟病魔抗争，两年了。我觉得想救麻麻最好的办法是争取 ...

这就必须依靠你的英文水平
笑死我了 在美国无医保看病最关键的竟然是英文水平 开了眼界

补充内容 (2017-9-29 14:06):
我不知道楼主家是不是富二代 但是如果只是小资产阶级的话 全程在美国无医保就医的治疗费用根本就承受不了 无所谓什么英文水平不英文水平的问题 此外美国也解决不了胰腺癌的问题 治愈可能微乎其微 乔布斯还不是挂了

祝楼主妈妈早日康复，我自己妈妈是慢性病…… 从个人角度来说更倾向于多陪爸妈，休学应该是可操作的，陪伴对妈妈还有对自己来说都太重要了……

Though the public laptop doesn't have the Pingyin Input, I can't help to reply you as I am quite in the same situation as you!

I am graduated in this May in Computer Engineering from EE background, and my mom got stomach cancer in January. My whole family hide the truth to me till the June and I was still pending for job at that time. I am in great pressure as I cannot go back to China without the hope of earning more money. I do need the money, since the reason why my mom get sick is that she invested all of my family's saving to the private loan company and lost all of it.

God bless and miracle happens, after two days I heard the news, I passed an interview to work for American Express as a contract engineer, I went back to China as soon as I got the offer and stays the short times with my family.  Regular ones can't imagine how hard time to meet parents when the mom loses weight for almost 70 pounds under the medicine and operation, and the dad gets much weak to support the family alone in most of the year. I was shocked and hardly to accept the truth when I met my mom first time,  though I knew she get sick before but I was told that is the Gastric ulcer, I could not see my mom's figure clearly before as the phone's camera on the other side was intentionally made fuzzy, and my mom was always in a side of view I can't see clearly the whole. Things get better now, though separated with my parents, I could support the family in the emergency, my mom get recovered, still in the stage under control. Now I am still fighting for a full time job.

Wish the men suffer strengthen each other, Kindly suggestions as others, if your mom is in such a bad situation, go back! See if you could pend your program. Whatever, Go back and go back.

Best wishes to your mom!

祝早日康复。follow ur heart

经历过类似的事情 看到这个帖子 想起那些事情 心痛
不是很了解这个病 不过还是想对LZ说 不管是工作还是学习 没有什么比家人更重要了
有一些事情 错过了就再也回不来了。

祝LZ妈妈早日康复

先休学回去陪家人吧，不然以后再好工作心里都会有遗憾的，等妈妈稳定了可以再过来。而且这种病症病人自身的求生意识也很重要，你如果能陪在妈妈身边一定会让她的求生意识更坚定一些的。祝楼主妈妈早点好起来