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Sadly, this question is asked again.
If you need to take care of a young girl for your whole life, do you want to know her as much as possible? But to marry a girl from your hometown, how much time do you have to date her before going too fast into the track? By ignoring all the necessary testing, you make yourself and her and both families a big time bomb.
Divorce rates are so high in this field, the name of marriage of convenience is dubious at least in most circles. The more beautiful the girl is, the more competition locally you face. But she is not going to tell you all of the experience she had. When you start a life in SF Bay, she is going to tell a lot differences from her previous chasers to you. A good estimation is that she will regret by second year, and defect by year 7. Toronto, San Jose, NYC, the place of massive heart breaking cases.
A little more details in argument against the rush. You want to take care of the girl. She is looking for a husband she can love. What if you are not ready? What if she mistook you for a wrong personality you presented in your home town? It is very likely that 1-3 year dating, 1-2 years engagement, then marriage is more suitable for local lovers. But to marry a girl from China, you might trust yourself to shorten it into couple weeks, if not 1 year. |
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