好纠结的一个话题

Marsian 发表于 2013-4-18 18:56
直接见父母，谈谈

现在不是见父母的问题，是她要选择分手，说分开就分开了

chwcrazy 发表于 2013-4-18 18:58
现在不是见父母的问题，是她要选择分手，说分开就分开了

patpat，那还是为了自己的前途着想吧。等你出人头地了妹子兴许还有回来的可能

Marsian 发表于 2013-4-18 18:59
patpat，那还是为了自己的前途着想吧。等你出人头地了妹子兴许还有回来的可能

不可能了，她由很爱我转到恨我了感觉

作为一个已经坚持一年异国的妹子，我表示她如果喜欢你，会考虑去找你哒！异国也没有特别可怕！两个人都努力，会到一起的！

If you quit going aboard, it will be kind of hard for you to achieve what you can achieve in the US unless you have strong networks in China.

If you cannot achieve enough accomplishments or let's say your achievements are less than or equal to your girlfriend. It will be good for a period of time while both of you are young and don't have too much pressure because your relationship is based on LOVE. However, when you become old, you will get pressure from company, parents, children. At that time, if you still haven't got more accomplishments than your girlfriend, your girlfriend will kind of feel that you haven't contribute enough to the family as a MAN because every girl will want a man whom she can rely on. If she has this kind of feeling in her mind, you can imagine what life you will have....
   

徐小然2011 发表于 2013-4-18 20:39
作为一个已经坚持一年异国的妹子，我表示她如果喜欢你，会考虑去找你哒！异国也没有特别可怕！两个人都努力 ...

她已经放弃了，她和我说她坚持不了异地，她是真的很爱我，她说她这几天的眼泪流的比20年都多，我看了很心疼，她说既然都已经选择了，分开就分开了，不存在等这个字

zt7584 发表于 2013-4-18 20:45
If you quit going aboard, it will be kind of hard for you to achieve what you can achieve in the US  ...

thanks for typing many words, my girlfriend will not wait me if I choose to go aboard, though she loves me soooo much, she can't stand the suffering of waiting, I am so sad these days, She has Broke up with me, I am very guilty now..

chwcrazy 发表于 2013-4-18 18:58
现在不是见父母的问题，是她要选择分手，说分开就分开了

既然都分了就分了吧

787493477 发表于 2013-4-18 21:14
既然都分了就分了吧

哎。。说好的要一直在一起呢，结果由于我收到录取了，然后又去，是不是很对不起她啊

chwcrazy 发表于 2013-4-18 21:19
哎。。说好的要一直在一起呢，结果由于我收到录取了，然后又去，是不是很对不起她啊

是有点哎。。。因为都说好了的了 你看看能不能给人家点补偿，比如说到时候帮她申请？帮她联系出国交换机会什么的