有多少人想混个名校硕士文凭的呢？

bertas 发表于 2014-2-19 02:32
plz define better first.

就是给我两个选择，我会选择TOP50的学校。

我觉得还是为了前途奔波的苦逼ds居多吧

个人选择啦

PHD就职貌似更难啊。。。对于本科学校一般，不想转专业，又不想做学术的我来说，一个比较好的MS再适合不过了
我才发现我早就回过了。。。可见我对这个问题很有想法

每个人追求不一样，我很多朋友觉得考个公务员安稳一辈子就最好的选择，换我肯定不要，但我不会觉得这选择就是错误的。
有父辈罩着的孩子，回国自然比在美找工作爽，美国的10W年薪打完税剩6W多，这钱换在北上广还不错，但说很高也是假的。

I am so glad you bring it up.
the important difference is how one choose to live one's life. America is all about individualism and freedoom.

In U.S., one can care nothing else but doing an insanely great job, following Elon Musk and Steve Jobs. One can basically ignore all the crappy junks of so called "Face culture" in China. Everthing is quite merit-based. At least this is still true in silicon valley. The sole important thing is how one does one's work. And if one is excellent enough, sky is the limit. People like Steve Jobs cannot survive in China. American freedom is not chinese democracy. For instance, I am never reluctant to show my contempts to these chinse communists and people with very close connections to the gov. And look at me now, I am living a happy life with relatively high salaries and full dreams rather than staying in prison. I can do whatever I want. America is all about oneself.

In China, it's all about networking, manipulation, relatives and dark networking. One does a great work. So what? Don't excpet as much rewards as one can get in silicon valley. And I'd like to call a lot of people who stay in China, bodies without souls.  They willingly, or unwillingly reshape their souls to make themselves feel comfortable in mainland. Otherwise they cannot swallow the unconfortable feelings such as humiliations  imposed by others without too much pain.

你现在可以嘴硬说他们不过是混混日子而已，以后我一定比他们强。其实我倒觉得如果是买办阶级出身的同学，很可能以后的结果也是很好的，毕竟国内形势在那里。这和他们读没读 Graduate School 没有关系。这不过是一种形式而已。

I think the important thing for you here is you should not feel reluctant to show your comtempts to them if you want to. Living in america is all about oneself's feelings. No one could hold you back if you are not breaking the law or doing something too extreme.

But I do agree with others. Rich people without close connections with gov and rich people with clsoe connections with gov are differecent. However, I don't want to kid too much. The formers, who earned their moeny honestly are quite few.

zach 发表于 2014-2-17 22:24
这个说的不够准确。流着血也不顶用，早有当年不厚踹断他爹这个统治阶层肋骨、国家主席被批斗etc，今有分分 ...

you are so right.

zheng18552 发表于 2014-3-26 01:29
你现在可以嘴硬说他们不过是混混日子而已，以后我一定比他们强。其实我倒觉得如果是买办阶级出身的同学，很 ...

各人选择的生活方式不同而已~在地里摆事实就好了，尽量不要judge别人

第一桶金都是带有原罪的，不过是有的人的父辈已经完成的事业需要另一些人现在来实现