最近心情抑郁 刚被裁 身份忧虑 求解

楼主加油

You asked me to make a life decision for you, and here is my decision for you:

- Don't go back. It's a one-way trip, no return is allowed. You would regret it after 6 months, if not sooner.
- Stay and fight through this. Switch to B2 near the end of the 60 days, make a plan how you want to find a new job - submit your resume to 20 companies each day, do it for 2 weeks (that's 280 companies), and you will have interviews lined up. Make an interview study plan too. One has to go through layoffs at some point of their life, you do it now, it will be easier next time.

In two to three years, you will have a green card, 7 years of work experience, a booming economy and companies begging you with big offers. Keep your head up and fight for that day.

匿名用户 发表于 2023-9-24 15:25
这和你走没走完perm流程没关系吧，主要是看你下家雇主有多给力了，我之前的雇主七个多月走完perm

那我大胆的猜测你大概是19年左右走的perm。。。
现在pwd 10个月+ ，perm 10个月+ ，广告 3个月，都不算公司内部流程和律所流程，140pp最后到手也要2年。。

匿名用户 发表于 2023-9-24 13:25
这和你走没走完perm流程没关系吧，主要是看你下家雇主有多给力了，我之前的雇主七个多月走完perm

你在说什么呢？lz在前司没走完perm怎么file 485？

asianyoungman 发表于 2023-9-24 14:46
You asked me to make a life decision for you, and here is my decision for you:

- Don't go back. I ...

被裁从来都不是很容易。岁数大了，会感到愈加艰难。第二次比第一次也不会轻松，只是心里的shock少了，that is it

都是一份工作而已，哪里都差不多

楼主加油

请一定要加油
Do not give up

你都已经来地里问了 那还是回国吧

回国后问题依然存在，如果北上广深杭等热门工作地方有房，可以回去。如果没有，回去和一帮985/211竞争，并不轻松。楼主有大厂和中厂经验，坚持在美国，说不定柳暗花明。