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[小学时期] 请教这种情况要不要给娃换班

   
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李宝宝 发表于 2023-10-02 14:47:58
一遇到可能有点问题的老师就想换班或者是转校还是不可取的,这不就是逃避嘛。看看能不能想办法解决,如果我是你的话,第一,老师不回邮件我肯定会多发几次邮件去追一追这个事情,告诉老师你跟孩子已经聊过了,孩子也
说的很好 赞 感谢

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我之前也有跟楼主一样的困惑
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匿名用户-USBVM  2023-10-3 06:36:03 来自APP
李宝宝 发表于 2023-10-02 14:47:58
一遇到可能有点问题的老师就想换班或者是转校还是不可取的,这不就是逃避嘛。看看能不能想办法解决,如果我是你的话,第一,老师不回邮件我肯定会多发几次邮件去追一追这个事情,告诉老师你跟孩子已经聊过了,孩子也
多谢您的回复,非常合理的建议
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匿名用户-GGRPW  2023-10-3 07:07:13 来自APP
本帖最后由 匿名 于 2023-10-2 18:33 编辑

看了楼主的描述之后非常气愤,这是很明显的racism,专门针对你的孩子穿小鞋。楼主一定要站在孩子的一方,对抗这种恶劣的歧视行为,不要下次轻易和这种心机这么重的“老师”邮件道歉,不然她更把你和你孩子当软柿子捏。

这些邮件都要escalate给校领导,说明原委。有些“老师”根本不配当老师。并且从孩子口中多问一些发生过的事例,一一列举出来发送给校领导,曝光这个“老师”的恶劣歧视行径。

并且一定要考虑转校或者转班,不然对孩子的身心影响太大了。


Subject: Urgent Concerns Regarding Teacher Conduct and Racism in the Classroom

Dear [School Principal's Name],

I hope this email finds you in good health. I am writing to express my deep concerns about recent incidents involving my child, [Child's Name], who is currently in [Grade Level], under the supervision of [Teacher's Name]. It has come to my attention that there are serious issues regarding my child's treatment in the classroom, which I believe require immediate attention and investigation.

Over the past few weeks, my child has been subjected to unjust and prejudiced treatment by [Teacher's Name]. The incidents I will describe are deeply troubling and have raised concerns about the teacher's professionalism and behavior.

False Accusations: Several weeks ago, [Teacher's Name] contacted me via email, alleging that my child had brought Pokémon cards to class and disrupted the learning environment. I addressed this issue with my child, and he admitted to the mistake. However, it is crucial to note that my child had already been reprimanded for this incident, and we apologized promptly to [Teacher's Name]. Despite our efforts to resolve the matter amicably, she never responded to our apology or acknowledged our commitment to ensuring a better classroom environment.

Unsubstantiated Claims: More recently, another concerning incident occurred when [Teacher's Name] accused my child of searching for Pokémon cards during a class assignment involving Chromebooks. She alleged that he had opened numerous tabs related to Pokémon cards, jeopardizing his schoolwork. However, upon investigating his Chromebook history, I found that there were only two open Google pages, all relevant to the tasks during  class, directly contradicting [Teacher's Name]'s claims.

Unequal Treatment: [Child's Name] has informed us that [Teacher's Name] seems to favor certain students, most of whom are of Caucasian descent, regardless of their behavior. Even when these students engage in inappropriate actions, she responds with leniency and humor. In contrast, my child and another Asian student have been disproportionately targeted for minor infractions, receiving harsh reprimands and public humiliation.

What raised further concerns was a recent incident in which I received a call from the school, inquiring about my child's absence due to illness during lunchtime. This alarmed me since I had personally seen my child board the school bus earlier that day. Upon receiving the call, I was on my way to the school, but before I could arrive, the school called again, stating that my child was indeed present and accounted for in class. This incident left me puzzled and raised questions about the teacher’s communication and record-keeping.

What deeply troubles me is that all these incidents seem to be interconnected, and my child has confided in me about something that has made him uncomfortable. According to [Child's Name], [Teacher's Name] seems to show favoritism towards certain students, predominantly those of Caucasian descent. Even when these favored students engage in disruptive behavior, [Teacher's Name] tends to downplay it with casual remarks like "Don't do that silly thing," without any consequences.

In stark contrast, [Child's Name] and another student of Asian descent have faced unjust treatment from [Teacher's Name]. For instance, when my child was accidentally hit by a football kicked by one of these favored students, he was the only one reprimanded. Similarly, when the other student was caught drawing on the desk with a marker, [Teacher's Name] publicly berated them in front of the entire class, threatening to inform their parents about the "shameful" act.

These incidents have left my child feeling marginalized, unfairly treated, and discouraged about their educational experience. [Teacher's Name] have deeply distressed my child and created an unwelcome and hostile learning environment. I strongly believe that these actions by [Teacher's Name] are indicative of racial bias, and it is essential that this matter is investigated thoroughly to ensure that every student is treated fairly and equally.

Given the gravity of these allegations and the evidence pointing towards discriminatory behavior, I kindly request a thorough and impartial investigation into [Teacher's Name]'s conduct. It is crucial to ensure that every student, regardless of their background, is treated fairly and with the respect they deserve. Additionally, I urge you to take appropriate actions based on the findings of this investigation to prevent any further harm to students and to maintain a nurturing educational environment.

I believe it is essential for us, as educators and parents, to foster an environment where all students are treated fairly and equally. It is my hope that you will investigate these incidents thoroughly and take appropriate action to ensure that such incidents do not recur. Our children deserve to learn in a safe, respectful, and unbiased environment.

I believe that a swift and comprehensive response is necessary to rectify this situation and ensure that my child, along with all students at [School Name], can learn in a safe, inclusive, and nurturing environment. I look forward to hearing from you and working together to address these concerns promptly. My primary goal is to ensure that [School Name] remains a place where every student can thrive and learn without fear of discrimination or unfair treatment.

I trust that you will address these concerns seriously and take the necessary steps to rectify the situation promptly.

Thank you for your immediate attention to this matter.

Sincerely,

[Your Name]
[Your Contact Information]

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匿名用户-UDGFS  2023-10-3 07:16:04 来自APP
这个老师发邮件的态度就很差啊,任何人以这种态度说话我都不觉得他是一个值得信任和沟通的人
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匿名用户-GGRPW  2023-10-3 07:34:44
匿名用户 发表于 2023-10-2 18:16
这个老师发邮件的态度就很差啊,任何人以这种态度说话我都不觉得他是一个值得信任和沟通的人

是的,这种恶劣行径必须被反映给校领导。很明显的歧视行为。
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怎么让这种人渣滚出学校啊。 我的邻居号称是一位老师,但是日常交流感觉并不qualify为一位合格的老师,难以想象小孩子交给这些人。
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匿名用户-C3JQN  2023-10-3 07:54:10
本帖最后由 匿名 于 2023-10-2 17:05 编辑

孩子在学校遇到事情了,不做任何的调查取证核实,单方面的纯粹相信老师。。。

连让孩子做辩护的权利都没有。。而且还删除账号没收孩子心爱的物品。。。

这年头真的是什么样的人都可以做父母。。


还厌学。。。这都是小事儿。。脆弱点的孩子去自尽的。。性格强硬点的变得反社会的。。。

真的,与其在这里考虑要不要给孩子换学校。。我觉得给孩子换个爹可能效果更好。

您要记住,您是在孩子成年之前对抗社会威胁的唯一屏障。
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匿名用户-WYW5U  2023-10-3 07:55:30 来自APP
像我这种多动症的 开会的时候有时候也需要开几个别的网页略微看看 要不然容易放空做白日梦
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匿名用户 发表于 2023-10-2 13:54
感谢各位的批评 楼主确实要好好反省 同时也想听一下各位有没有建议 比如换班或者怎么跟学校沟通?

我觉得这种一般都是直接找校长 沟通完了再决定怎么办
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匿名用户 发表于 2023-10-2 16:54
孩子在学校遇到事情了,不做任何的调查取证核实,单方面的纯粹相信老师。。。

连让孩子做辩护的权利都没 ...

赞同 必须让孩子知道即使天塌下来了 会有父母帮撑着。 所以任何事情第一时间不该是责备,而是先弄清楚发生了什么,尤其要听自己孩子口中的描述。想想自己长大过程中有哪些事情是不希望自己父母做的的,然后不要让那些事情再重复发生了。
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