如果你看一亩三分地焦虑，恭喜你，你已经离成功不远了

看NBA球星签下上亿合同，绝大多数地里网友不会焦虑。
看霉霉世界巡回演唱会光芒夺目，绝大多数地里网友不会焦虑。


为什么看别人晒个名校offer，晒个Meta 50W大包，晒个三年狗家5升7会焦虑？


因为，同一个圈层人的“成功”最让人焦虑。
你已经具备了这一类“成功”所需要的基本能力和素质，只是需要一点运气，一点机会，一点努力来真正拿到手。


如果你看一亩三分地焦虑，恭喜你，你已经成功了。

我的焦虑是因为看着曾和自己一个圈层的人纷纷走到了在我之上的圈层。

不过还是谢谢楼主的宽慰，祝你工作顺利生活愉快。

“失败固然可怕，但朋友的成功更让人揪心”

即怕兄弟过的苦，又怕兄弟开路虎🐶

我都焦虑好多年了，但是还是社畜一枚。

一点运气，一点机会就是遥不可及

他人的成功不会影响你的成功。这个竞争和合作的关系上学的时候还没学会吗？

能看一亩三分地就证明你是太想进步的人了

已经超过95%了🤣

这个论坛用户太diverse 了，这里面用户的戾气、杠精、秀哥秀姐的优越感、粉红和黄川的反智言论，有时候不单单是让人焦虑这么简单，还让人血压升高

I have been wondering why we would be more jealous about people around us. Is there a biological basis for it? I think there might be one. Imagine a lion chasing a group of zebras on African Safari, and you are the unfortunate zebra that is caught by the lion. I am sure the zebra that is down will be so jealous to the zebra who is right next to it but runs just a little bit faster. It won't be that jealous to those zebras a lot farther to it. Same for prehistorical humans. Although we are out of the Safari now and being a little bit better than your peers won't mean life-or-death, that trait is still ingrained in our DNA.