撕实习Offer学校会不会不给CPT？

楼主大概去年12月份左右接了个local小公司A的intern offer，最近非常幸运的拿到了dream company的intern offer，不过楼主在撕第小公司A的offer时候，HR威胁楼主一定会通知学校的career center和department。由于CPT需要department审核, 并且department貌似对这种事情强烈反对，楼主最近一直在诚惶诚恐不知道该怎么办
P.S. 楼主是UCSD的，希望能有了解情况的学长学姐来指点下，以前有过类似的先例吗？ Thx

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P.P.S. 楼主暂时不考虑pre-completion opt, 因为6/17 start date的话现在申请有点来不及了，并且会占用post-completion的时间

看你的dream offer 是什么。如果是（facebook ,google, amazon, apple,microsoft) 果断撕。
sd local 公司跟学校有点关系的就 （ webroot，appfolio，thermo fisher, mitchell)
12月的时候签offer 他们给你多少时间。少于两周可以argue 你是被exploring offer 了。

没有的话就想办法让department 不生气就行了。carrer center 生不生气不所谓。

department /hr 那就去装孙子，诚恳的道歉to both。说you are still new to this and still learning，把at will 的意思理解错了啥的 。 然后说你把department 说你把dream company offer 也签了。 department 一般这样也没啥办法

（以下是department 应该会跟你说的事情）：

When you accept an offer, the company and its people begin to rely on you, and they become invested in the positive outcome resulting from that relationship. Your future actions, whether positive or negative, rub off on those who stood beside you and this is with UCSD’s reputation with Microsoft, the CSE Department’s reputation with Microsoft, the CS Tutors’ reputations with Microsoft, and as a result Rick’s and my reputation with Microsoft does not shine as brightly due to your selfish actions. The cost of changing your mind is far from zero. Responding to a recruiter that no other student has ever had negative ramifications when choosing to rescind an acceptance is scarring, shocking, and audacious! Of course, just because you’re unaware of the negative ramifications doesn’t mean there aren’t any. Drawing such a conclusion reveals a deep hole in your engineering education in basic logic. In your situation, your first negative outcome will be my inability to be a reference in any future endeavor. The prospect or possibility of a positive relationship with me is over. I can’t speak for Rick but the consequence of your actions makes it impossible for him to stand by you either. Any future requests or references, mean that standing with you would risk damage to our relationships with the requesters because you’ve shown your commitments to be unreliable and your words to be meaningless. Of course, you are not welcome in the future to any tutor recruiting event. This is not punishment, but rather these are some of the consequences set in motion by anyone who reneges on an offer. I don’t see a positive path or road through the scorched earth left in the aftermath of such an action. Your decision to accept an offer and continue to shop around for better positions is high-risk behavior not dissimilar to accepting a marriage proposal and continuing to date others. There are not many people who have the opportunity to build relationships with companies like Microsoft when those companies come to UCSD. When you accept then renege, you spit on all of those involved in the process that led to that offer. A job offer from the administration demands respect, and reneging on that offer is responding with disrespect! Telling your recruiter that no student has ever had negative consequences is like responding to a marriage proposal by offering a middle finger rather than your ring finger! I don’t know any of the steps along your decision-making process or any of the possibilities you were considering, and so all of this comes as a BIG SURPRISE, and a very big disappointment. You made it harder for Microsoft to want to come to UCSD, you made it harder for Microsoft to offer any UCSD student a position, you made it harder for Microsoft to offer any UCSD tutor a position. You've tarnished our reputation through our association with you, and you should be ashamed. Declining a job due to content? Really? Did the content of the job change since you’ve accepted it? Your reason for reneging has no credibility whatsoever. It comes across as an obvious lie, condescending and discounting the efforts of everyone you expect will believe it.
听完以后就说已经学习到了，以后知道了这种事情了。（心里请记得自己的利益是最重要的）
（你装的越孙子，department 越有可能给你签，想楼上说的，撕offer 这种事情多了去）

还有最好不要让A知道你去哪。

支持撕，CPT还没办，撕offer这种事儿多了去了，学校应该不会为了这种事儿卡你的cpt。给HR发封邮件，诚恳地道歉一波。

想问一下楼主那家a公司是啥公司，能否告知或者私信一下避坑。。。
不能给你加分。。。

的确是蛮进退两难的，如果你不撕，有了这么一出，去那个小公司还能有好脸色看么，如果撕了，学校career service这边肯定也不乐意，给不了意见，祝好

最后去哪家公司学校不用关心吧，cpt还没申请的话

主要是与系里管CPT签字的老师沟通。一般他应当理解你的选择，只要他有积极表示（到时会签字），即使不明说，就可以

老实说 今年 UCSD 先接了其他中小公司 offer 然后又拿了亚麻实习的同学不要太多，基本上都以各种理由跟前公司说不去 然后去亚麻了。 感觉没什么大问题。

rogerlin1234 发表于 2019-3-20 04:26
老实说 今年 UCSD 先接了其他中小公司 offer 然后又拿了亚麻实习的同学不要太多，基本上都以各种理由跟前公 ...

问题是我这个事现在department已经知道了，怕不给CPT...

匿名者 发表于 2019-3-20 12:39
问题是我这个事现在department已经知道了，怕不给CPT...

department 发给你邮件了么？有的话就去认个错。