请问recruiter这样回是不是就凉凉了？

最近面的一个职位被recruiter吊的够呛，面完了几天后，发了一段：“I just wanted to let you know that your interview went well. You are one of our top candidates currently. Management is aiming to make a final decision by the end of next week or early the week after. Please know that we are very excited with the potential of moving to next steps. I thank you for your patience and efforts so far. I look forward to talking with you again soon.”。后来一个礼拜以后我follow up了一下，recruiter这么回：“I hope that you are dong well.  You are still one of our top candidates for the role.  We will not have any next steps or new information until next week since several important people are out of the office this week.  I hope that you have an amazing holiday and let’s talk again next week.  Thanks so much for reaching out.”。
然后我就接着等了整整一个感恩节的假期，今天周一我也没有催，来了这么一句话：“I hope to get some updates soon.  Thanks for your patience and I hope that you had a wonderful holiday.”。这是不是在我前面的candidate已经接了offer了，该给我发拒信了？谢谢。

单从邮件看我觉得可能性很多啊，比如这个公司是一次面一批，你属于早的那个，公司觉得你可以但是安排了的面试得走完。或者很多人说的你是备胎顺位靠前的。或者单纯的是经理面完了就去放假了。甚至还有可能人事变动新经理刚刚接手。。。。

放平心态，继续努力才是王道。

没有呀，听起来像终于有updates应该是manager made. Decision to move forward了。要是拒绝就直接ghost你啦 提前祝贺

小径分岔口的鳄鱼 发表于 2021-11-30 01:20
没有呀，听起来像终于有updates应该是manager made. Decision to move forward了。要是拒绝就直接ghost你啦 ...

谢谢啊！问了好几个朋友都说在waiting list上。。弄的现在心里比较焦躁。

感觉其他面试也不能那么好好的准备了，应该以move on的心态对待？

是备胎的节奏。大概率无了，除非上个人offer没谈拢

why1205 发表于 2021-11-30 12:06:57
是备胎的节奏。大概率无了，除非上个人offer没谈拢

是的，这位recruiter把老二哄住让老二陪跑的技术很强大

麦田HYMK 发表于 2021-11-30 13:12:06
单从邮件看我觉得可能性很多啊，比如这个公司是一次面一批，你属于早的那个，公司觉得你可以但是安排了的面试得走完。或者很多人说的你是备胎顺位靠前的。或者单纯的是经理面完了就去放假了。甚至还有可能人事变动新

是的谢谢，最狠的情况是他们一直面，面到有更合适的为止，同时拖着我。。。这个recruiter再这样发微我就想直接不回了

补充内容 (2021-12-01 05:23 +08:00):
*发邮件

很有可能就是hm没来得及和team讨论，当然其他可能性也是有的