手把手教锁男搬运

VAL_9 发表于 2022-7-4 04:18
太锁了，楼主能不能帮帮我们正经读书的妹子写写这类人的identifier？主要是和善良老实内向的好男孩区分一下 ...

诸位，我人手不够
请将此文速速分享给你认识的国内捞女，一物降一物。
Sample参见硅谷林胜斌的闪婚娇妻

Ps： 您说巧不巧，也是G家人才(没有说G家不好的意思)

Great advice with my respect. Here are my reasons:

1. It took courage and wisdom to survive in America for Asian men 300 years ago. There was little Chinese women living in America at that time. Men came first and strived for survival and then 'transport' their female family member, which was how the majority of Chinese family formed by then. If you think at that time such 'transportation' is reasonable, then today such 'transportation' is still reasonable, because it is still extremely hard for Asian men to survive today in the United States, especially if you are 'suo nan' or underclass people. If you think it is so disgusting to transport, you should argue that 300 years ago Chinese men should try to marry local white/hispano/black women rather than transportation. Ask yourself, what has changed here after 300 years? especially for 'suo nan'? First batch of Chinese Gold Rush/Miner also made a fortune compared with their Qing Dynastry homie, in the same place, San Francisco...  Nothing has changed...

2. If you think marriage is for love, for companion, for soul mate...... You are not in the same level with 'suo nan'. You are more close to Hepburn in Roman Holiday except that you do not have to be a princess. For peasant or suo nan, marriage is a serious business. It is like our Chinese grandparents' generation marriage, when all of the above BS did not exist. Like the author said, you build your relationship with your partner AFTER you made her your partner/mom of your kid. The order is very important here. For suo nan, building relationship could be extremely money burning and time wasting because it can not guaranteed him a partner, which endanger his survival to some extent.

3. For those ladies who really wants to keep distance with suo nan, I don't think you need to worry about them because you failed to sense their existence for such a long time. Suo nan are not guys you dislike as your colleague/neighbor/classmates. Suo nan are folks you did not remember that they ever exist in your life! "A lot of men will receive their first bunch of flowers at their funeral". They won't even bother chase after you. No worries lol.

4. For suo nan, even if the advice is great, it comes with price and risk. You really need a huge amount of connections in China to filter a good looking lady who probably is also an underclass girl. For 3 candidates even score 6 ,+1 sigma(SD) need 19 samples, assuming normal distribution of outlooking. From my observation, unless they are handicapped or have a brain damage, they are hard to reconcile for material life. Meanwhile like mentioned above, you need to put her in a red anti-abortion state because she has extremely high possibility to get rid of you once she got PR. All your plan will be reverse engineered so good luck! But I think at least it is better than nothing.

willzou 发表于 2022-07-04 14:09:22
能称赞这个帖子的，都是有一大群这样的群体。
这些人肯定也是找不到没办法，勤奋努力智商发挥都拉满，比那些拒绝他们的女生强不少。
但有什么办法呢？不知道那些反对个啥劲，反正别人也是单着，别人想结婚有啥

你错了。如果只是长相不佳和不善言辞，是绝对绝对不至于怎么也找不到对象的。要不就是非要仗着自己口袋里有两个钢蹦就不自量力要找颜值远远高于自己的，要不就是被拒绝了几次心生愤恨猥琐之气都溢出来了的，或者二者皆有。如果lz以及他的锁男信徒们真的如他们所说一样“尊重女性”， 那就绝无可能说出“生个大胖小子就留住人了”这种话。其次，虽然说大家都渴望亲密关系，但是锁男渴望的明明只是一个泄欲工具和生育机器。在我认识的女生里，再坏再没有自知之明的女生都没有这么莫名其妙的繁殖欲，为了有sex life和后代甘愿找个文盲帅哥？所以女生会感到莫名，感到恶心，恶心有男人居然为了这点事儿自己都不把自己当人。最后，这个帖子赞踩比如此离谱就是说明地里男性用户远远多于女性，反过来如果有一个女生来发帖教大家怎么骗锁男把他们吃干抹净，并且说自己“尊重男性”只是想结婚而已，那这个帖子都能被踩爆并且收获几百楼的辱骂。

写的挺好的。楼主应该再讨论一下疫情期间，回国难的情况下，如何搬运啊?

willzou 发表于 2022-7-4 14:20
要比赚钱，比学历，比读的书多，跑步跑得快，家务活干得好，你一样都比不过好不
那别人在美国找不到，
...

害我还以为你我是兄弟，闹半天是在和我比卷我呢😅咱可不兴窝里斗啊，那多掉价啊
实不相瞒，我女票和你条件差不多，她不要求我这些，我也比不过她，她各方面都比我强100倍
本来不想说这些，本来这是我心里见不得人的小九九
我也没什么人生追求，我人生最大的梦想就是和她结婚
不知道她什么时候会让我娶她，在此之前我一定要好好表现
好好健身保持身材和脸蛋，以后当好她的花瓶娇夫，带我出去不能给她的姐妹们丢份儿不是
我必须继续足够自律健身护肤打扮，不然等我年老色衰失去生育价值之后她不要我了怎么办

SaraKVOH 发表于 2022-07-04 04:08:27
能分享颜值低的，宅，内向，性格孤僻敏感，不爱主动的女生如何找到男票吗？

搬就完事了

pu神一直热心分享，没想到还能教授搬运(一个笑哭的表情)，而且搬运贴还写得充满一股学术气息，就差用latex排版了(又一个笑哭的表情)。

931210wpy 发表于 2022-7-4 12:20
建议一棒子打死，不找国男就全避开了

老哥稳，真的是累了。认识湾区很多男生都是积极上进，很多长的个子高，模样帅，会打扮，有爱好，赚钱也不少，还是名校毕业，彬彬有礼，家里也不差钱。不少人也有幽默感也会制造浪漫。可是依然还是经常被欺骗感情，被玩弄的多了，这些人难道就不心寒吗? 不是“锁男”也变成精神上的“锁男”。这样的人也并不少。我想这也是为啥这个看起来某种意义上消极到极点的文章反而赞目前多于踩的原因。文章本身而言确实是不够尊重女性，但更不够尊重的其实是自己，人都有自尊的需求，能有这么多思考，很大程度上把自尊都放下了，呜呼哀哉！
不过讲道理，我感觉好像我也没资格这样讲，“未经他人苦，莫劝他人善”。哎 = =

这帖子炸出了多少上蹿下跳的国女，就知道LZ干的有多好了。还有麻烦国女长篇大论谴责lz之前，看看国女是怎么倒贴老外的，小红书上面一大堆嫁给比自己大几十岁的白人的，还在修恩爱的例子。如果说lz口中颜值不高但是学历收入都可以的国男是锁男，那么这帮倒贴的国女是什么？

unggink 发表于 2022-7-4 17:17
是很可怕没错啊，但是男方也是求仁得仁自讨苦吃不是吗？绝大多数女生都是想平平淡淡过日子的，但是锁男非 ...

说实话，美女和坏女人没有关系，就像美女和学习不好工作不好没关系一样。长得好看是天生的，学习工作是后天努力的，人品也是后天教育形成的。天生好看也可以努力学习努力工作，人品正直。
丑女里也有想当捞女当坏人的，只是没有那个资本而已。说白了就是坏人有美有丑，区别就是美的有资本骗人成功了，丑的没资本骗人，并不是丑的人品就好。
把长相和人品挂钩来简单判断是妥妥错误的。结局恐怕是找个丑捞女而已。