匿名吐槽湾区女生认真找对象的困境

ksu64386 发表于 2023-9-28 23:53
你说错了。我的感知是来自一个case...还真不是multiple case。虽然只有一个但这个case非常trauma给我留下 ...

要是只是一個那其實沒甚麼好提的, 直接pass好了.
這世界那麼大, 甚麼人沒有? 有人介意婚史這太正常了, 這也能trauma..........sosad

cheesechan1 发表于 2023-9-28 16:12
要是只是一個那其實沒甚麼好提的, 直接pass好了.
這世界那麼大, 甚麼人沒有? 有人介意婚史這太正常了,  ...

不是因为有人介意所以trauma，是整件事情发生的非常trauma...

补充内容 (2023-09-29 07:47 +08:00):

希望你遇到生活里不可避免的trauma时，周围人不是都在告诉你“世界这么大什么人没有，so sad”

Cannot type Chinese on company laptop.

If you have a marriage record, better to target those with marriage records as well. Thinking from the perspective on the opposite side, when you were young and not yet married, had you considered men with marriage record, even for a second? No discrimination, but it is reasonable if people are concerned about your past experience, whether you reveal the whole story, the connection with the past, etc. The effort to make judgement and give you full trust is time consuming and may not worth it. Those with marriage records are in the same boat and can understand you better.

eat_orange 发表于 2023-9-28 17:50
Cannot type Chinese on company laptop.

If you have a marriage record, better to target those with ...

I think people from this platform focus too much on the marriage record thing. It's really the other two items that's key. I only had one case where someone was concerned about my past marriage (and it wasn't a deal breaker either), but had multiple experiences re. the other two items.

真正的被爱只会发生在年轻人身上，这是多么残酷的现实啊

就是当你年龄越来越大了，你还会爱年轻人，但是没有人爱你了，不管是年轻的还是老的，都没有人爱你了，

lz有婚史完全没有任何问题，lz有婚史却只target未婚男，那就有问题了。

4h9dhwhj 发表于 2023-9-28 20:05
lz有婚史完全没有任何问题，lz有婚史却只target未婚男，那就有问题了。

我没有啊。我都可以啊没有刻意target

还好啦。三十岁离婚没小孩也没啥。身边有这种例子现在都过的很幸福

天天吐槽不从自己身上或再找对象的方法上找问题，你不可能成功，吐槽解决不了问题。理性看待问题吧，30多的人了。祝福楼主。

微信用户_e177522 发表于 2023-9-28 20:29
天天吐槽不从自己身上或再找对象的方法上找问题，你不可能成功，吐槽解决不了问题。理性看待问题吧，30多的 ...

我就吐槽了这一个帖子哪来的“天天吐槽”。你是这辈子从来没吐槽过么