硅谷渣男的事，网暴？这好像也没犯法吧。

这件事已经发酵很久了，每天都在关注，都跟朋友讨论。我的朋友是个口吐芬芳的侠客，据说一天23个小时都在为此生气。跟他一比我逊色很多，说话没那么好听。
来地里看到了很多为🐶男说话的发言，声称🐶男没有犯法，呼吁停止网暴。
大哥大姐们，道德败坏不犯法，讨论的人成了网暴？好的，网暴就网暴吧，请问，犯法了吗？
没犯法的话，你就闭嘴吧，別网暴我们。
我只看到，🐶男亲口承认的，一个月内再娶，一年内再育，驱逐亡妻父母。
插个图片：我骂你就骂你还要挑时间吗？
身价千万美金过亿人民币，却吝啬两张商务舱机票。现在这个时间三千块回国机票？我送你三千个有机鸡蛋啊大哥！
悲哀的是，热度总会过去，🐶男和🐶女会搬走，会去开始他们的新生活，人们也会逐渐淡忘。只是一个家庭彻底破碎了。
唯独希望天理昭昭，能够揭露🐶女签证背后的秘密，能够抚慰失独父母的心，也能够让两个孩子坚强快乐地长大成人。

咱就是出于对亡者的同情，发表愤慨言论而已。他夜路走多了自然怕鬼咯。

为啥有人开始用英文作文起来了。是反串黑为了让搜索引擎更容易index

这垃圾是典型的人渣白莲花，网友们都是正常的点评也被他说成网暴。人渣还要告网友们。告啊，网友们一起众筹律师和他刚。他说我们网暴他，我们还想说他的行为给我们造成了心理阴影和抑郁呢

若没有所谓的“网暴”？那人间正义在哪里？想全世界的人都麻木不仁吗？？？

他还要告

It’s definitely only one side of the story, and what we’re seeing here is highly slanted.

From what I have been told by someone who read about both sides, the other side is that the guy has two kids to take care of still, and the deceased wife’s parents were demanding large amounts of the insurance money, and kept finding excuses to ask for more. Note that this money would go to them instead of to his kids (i.e. their own grandchildren). They originally asked him for a yearly payment to them in perpetuity — presumably money they would have been demanding from their daughter were she to have lived. He refused that, and they went back and forth on a lump sum amount, ending up somewhere around $150k IIRC. The eviction part came a while after the parents refused to leave and go back home to China — partly over a dispute over their demands for business-class plane tickets at $10k each, whereas he offered to only pay $3k per ticket for economy class (yes these COVID-era ticket prices to China are nuts).

A complication is the fact that the guy re-married within a few months after his wife passed — and in fact the new wife was there in the house when the deceased wife’s parents arrived. So that surely didn’t help calm things.

His story on that front was that he started online dating right after his wife passed, found the right person for him, and proposed marriage very quickly. So even if you take his story at face value, he does come off as rather callous towards his deceased wife. The apparently low-effort way he disposed of her ashes also points towards that.

Anyways, that’s some vital info there. The guy may still be a POS, but he’s got kids to take care of, and the deceased wife’s parents also sound like they aren’t exactly selfless individuals either. It’s really not worth this level of attention from the public at large; stories like what OP is quoting seem very much like some kind of public shaming campaign that the parents are instigating.

没犯法也不影响对方起诉的... 当然也不影响你起诉对方... 但我觉得美国社会如此看重言论自由，只要不闹出大事（比如某偏激网友在看到论坛某个造谣信息之后刺杀男方，这个造谣的人肯定会有责任），对方肯定不会胜诉的。

en010272 发表于 2022-03-17 16:49:50
他还要告

毕竟是当tpm的

好像大家都是在讨论怎么做合法怎么做不合法，而不是在讨论怎么借此机会造法或者推动立法，这就说明很多人还没有习惯公民政治的生活吧。美国人肯定不会觉得有什么自然存在不可更改的法，即使宪法也有修正案。比如堕胎法案就是美国进步派先推动，然后现在保守派在试图绕过roe v wade让其名存实亡，这些都是非常具体真实的政治博弈。