该不该为了女朋友和地理位置放弃更好的博士项目？

自身实力和发展重要，相信爱情容易后悔, 感动自己没有那么值钱。Trust me, if you are of certain high value, even if this one girl is gone, you can always get another this one type of girl. I know it might be hard at the moment but in the long term you won't regret. Always do what's best for yourself. And the girl you are with should always do what's best for herself. If she's yours, she will figure out a way maintain this relationship with you.  (过来人看过太多例子了)


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sheephead 发表于 2023-3-28 08:37
从重视家庭的角度 还是和女朋友在一起比较好。 如果不考虑在学术界发展毕业以后去公司的话，研究上有多少突 ...

she's not his wife and they don't have a kid together. What do you mean family? 😂

你问了不就说明内心已经有倾向了，从心就好

考虑导师先，选有tenure的，口碑好的教授。

大多数人的激情就两年保鲜期……住一起的话 激情消退更快啊

大道无情

一般为女朋友放弃工作的一般以后都会分手

hhh我最后选了离女朋友近的，我是在想明白哪怕最后分了也不会后悔以后就没什么顾虑了

刚入职的nlp教授，难道是usc的jieyu zhao？

先结婚生孩子