套磁损RP

小秘回信中提到：

Dr. XXX is very excited about the possibility of your coming to Vanderbilt and, of course, joining her group.  We have heard many good things about you and your interests and abilities. XXXXX

到时候如果万一去不了。。。唉。。。损RP

人家只是说possibility嘛~不去就不去了，他们能理解的……不伤RP……记得作出决定以后立刻告诉对方就是了

不伤RP，只要别说死就行了

小秘回信中提到：

Dr. XXX is very excited about the possibility of your coming to Vanderbilt and, of course, joining her group.  We have heard many good things about you and your interests and abili ...
dorae 发表于 2010-2-17 22:53

没在offer letter上签字，只是表达兴趣，就不算。

当然，你自己也不要把话说得过于死了，比如没人逼迫，自己主动表白多次，说definitely我会accept，然后最后拒绝，这样尽管也没违反啥规定，但是是会降低自己的形象

没关系，放心套，呵呵。

是呀 没关系的 这学校挺好的 说不定你以后改变主意了呢