求报税身份答疑

求版内税务大神，我家情况是队友今年在美居住不满183天，我和孩子在美整年。
可否我带着孩子按照head of household保税，队友按照NRA保税？
两人都是工签

是否可以报head of household的特殊条款里说 "Nonresident alien spouse. You are considered unmarried for head of household purposes if your spouse was a nonresident alien at any time during the year and you don’t choose to treat your nonresident spouse as a resident alien." 看起来可以。如果第一年进入美国，报dual status。

要算今年+去年的1/3+前年的1/6没超过183

队友没超过183。问题是我可以用head of household申报吗？有些人说不行。