留学黑暗面，自某位澳洲留学的师兄

smallmikko 发表于 2015-3-31 09:25
鉴于论坛上有太多已经在美国的同胞，我都懒得安慰lz了。
大陆也有黑暗面，食品有毒，空气有毒，那你有吃一 ...

其实只这样的，看报道的话，我对于各种黑暗确实已经免疫的差不多了，但冷不丁的有个身边的朋友认真地说起这些事，心里会有种这些事情很可能还会在我身边发生的感觉，所以当时有点慌

MaxGeng 发表于 2015-3-30 22:06
好深奥，有点不太懂

就是 做好自己

yanyanlr 发表于 2015-3-31 10:19
就是 做好自己

恩，明白了！

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到美国快五年了，依旧过的很开心，心态也很好。生活在你自己手中，路在你自己脚下，我想楼主至少也是成年人了吧，不至于说出了国就分辨不了是非。和国内，一样的。生活在你手中，路在你脚下，祝顺利咯。

http://www.city-data.com/crime/

for more fine grained data, check walk score

yes there are absolutely places you should NOT go to at night ( just like those in China)
SF is not that bad, Oakland, on the other hand, can be really bad.
NYC - not familiar, definitely there are good and bad areas, think of Law & Order....
Boston is not bad, Dorchester is a ghetto though
LA - you are not safe around downtown, USC etc. But near UCLA, Santa Monica, Westwood etc are superb neighborhoods
Chicago, dono
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that's pretty much the bigger cities in the US I guess?
many, many smaller cities have both a city feel and are pretty safe.

If you look for 100 close friends to hang out with --- that's gonna be pretty tough, except in SF/NYC/Boston/etc

In most places, bars close at 2am.

But I don't think the "Americanized" life is all about bars and sports, there are also many other types of things to explore
try living social
try groupon
try meetup
try outdoor sports like hiking, camping, jogging, kayaking, skiiing - yes you probably can do ALL of these in China, here it's just that much more available and less crowded
If you are up for it, you can try shooting ranges, paragliding, parasailing, wind surfing, kite surfing, bungie jumping, drive chopper/planes, skydive, fake skydive etc....ok admitted museums are not as great as those in Europe, but still way better than ANY I can find in China. Way better documentation and more authentic stuff, not crowded, not noisy, and there are actually many things to learn.
Try different foods. Chinese food is NOT the only type of food in the world. Nor is it necessarily the best.
Try different music. Go to concerts.
Watch some sports match live. Or watch it at a sports bar.
Play team sports. Play actual games face to face with people.
Try geeky games - there are amazing varieties of them! Hard to find in China.
Travel, go deeper than just tweeting a selfie with your besties. Read those stuff posted at landmarks/popular sites. Most if not all have interesting stories associated with them.
Learn to cook, learn to bake, learn mixology, learn to brew your own beer.
Make something with arduino or raspberry pi. Go print your own 3d logo at a makerbot shop.
Build an app. Build a website.
Build an actual tool.
Build your own furniture. Build your own shack. Build your own house.
Plant a garden. Plant vegetables.
Drive an ATV. Drive a mower. Drive a snow plower. Push a snow thrower.
Paint your room. Stain your deck.
Decorate your room, even if you just rent it for a year.
Read. Join a bookclub.
Watch Art history and then go to museums.
Flip through art books.
Flip through numerous books at the bookstore. Chat with your local librarian.
Walk dogs. Volunteer at the animal shelter.
Volunteer at the soup kitchen.
Do yoga.
Meditate.
Skype/facetime with family and friends.

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I mean, there are really lots and lots of stuff to do that are in general, quite safe......

那个脸被劈开的gif我貌似看过，太吓人。现在想起来还是觉得毛骨悚然。

MaxGeng 发表于 2015-3-31 10:14
哈哈，好吧，我会在天黑的时候老老实实地待在房间里

过了11点最好就别在外面晃悠了，我上xdf课的时候老师就给我们普及过，晚上躲着点黑哥哥，有一个大哥就是学习非常好的那种，又是学校乐队鼓手什么的，晚上回去晚了，坐地铁，被黑哥哥盯上，然后你懂得。。就被强X了，最后落得只能回国郁郁寡欢。咱不是说歧视什么黑人，但是美国的大众教育真的也是让人捉鸡，没开化过的黑哥哥很野蛮的

霸王 发表于 2015-3-31 11:21
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到美国快五年了，依旧过的很开心，心态也很好。生活在你自己手中， ...

哈哈，很阳光的回答，谢谢啦！

lawrencedeng 发表于 2015-3-31 12:18
那个脸被劈开的gif我貌似看过，太吓人。现在想起来还是觉得毛骨悚然。

那个师兄就是用这张图跟我打的招呼，当时就觉得聊天的气氛变惊悚了。。。。。。