Should adults make important decisions for their older teenage children
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写作思路：
1、整体采用“交锋式写作法”，即通过驳斥反面观点建立正面观点。
2、A段: 描述当今（中国）社会的现象：虽然不是全部，但有很多成年人为孩子做决定。并描述反面观点。
3、B段: 描述反面观点的理由。
4、C段: 对B段的理由逐一批驳。. Χ
5、D段：描述正面观点，并解释说明。
6、E段：总结陈辞。.google и
In today's society of China, many parents tend to make important decisions for their teenage children, behind which it is the Chinese tradition "father guides son". Though I personally believe that adults should not make important decisions on behalf of their children, there are still a lot of people that disagree with me.
These people could find many reasons to support their objection, and the one that says the children cannot make correct decisions due to lack of life experience is referred to the most. They believe that no correct decisions can be made without sufficient life experiences, and once wrong decisions are made, it always costs the children's time and energy to correct them. The parents don't want such costs because they hope their children could go directly to the success without any "meanders".
Such behaviors of these parents, however, could not be wrong anymore. The children will grow up and finally have to stand on their own feet, because in most cases their parents would pass away earlier than they do. If the children do not learn to make decisions by themselves when they are young, how could they be supposed to do so wisely when they have no way to rely on their parents someday?
I believe the teenage period is the best time for children to learn decision-making. This is reasoned as follows. First, a person's success is judged by his/her ending, not starting, thus it should be acceptable that the person falls behind the others at the early stage of life because he/she still has a lot of time to catch up. Second, the earlier the stage of life the person is in, the less it costs to make corrections, thus nobody should worry too much about choosing a wrong choice when a person is young. Finally, wrong decisions can teach the children a good lesson so the next time they will consider more deeply and thoroughly before making up their minds. (这里想有一个简短一些的总结句，但不知道怎么写比较好。)
The parents must help train their children's skill of making decisions, as a way of preparing them to face the future challenges independently. When their children are struggling for a decision, the parents could provide suggestions, help collect information, or simply let go by themselves, but should never tell them what to do directly.
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