请问wom pro se 是不是不能自己邮寄传票

file 了 wom，收到 summon 之后，是不是不能自己寄，需要找一个朋友邮寄？求经验 🙏

Who Can Serve a Summons in New Jersey
Under New Jersey Court Rule 4:4-3(a), the summons and complaint may be served by:

• The county Sheriff
• A private process server or person specially appointed by the court
• The plaintiff’s attorney or the attorney's agent
• Any other competent adult who does not have a direct interest in the litigation (meaning a friend, relative, or acquaintance who is not a party to the lawsuit)