美国就像一个围城

申请了OPT, 申请了H1B, 一步一步，记忆犹新。
我越来越觉得，美国像一个围城，里面的人和外面的人相互羡慕，各有各的苦衷，里面的人出不去，外面的人进不来。

Actually, from my observation of friends/classmates, no one with a healthy/normal brain(who don't have mental problem) wants to leave US apart from those who: 1. can't find job in US(or lose job and deported), 2. H1B not selected. They MUST return to China otherwise will be banned to reenty to US.
So, most people come to US to study/work and have only 1 reason: pretend to be a non-immigrant student/worker and immigrant to US permanently.
Then, those people who can't stay in US will pretend to put some posts or comments that they want to contribute to homeland, they will have more opportunity in China, more friends, more good foods and etc. (All of those posts or comments actually a reflection of a loser's mind).
All in all, please accept the reality, if you can't stay in US, be honest and say, I failed my American dream, I'm a life loser, please don't joke me when I'm deported to China and give me an offer to live in China for the rest of my life; if you can stay, when you get GC, be honest and say, I'm so proud of becoming a GC holder of US,  I'm the winner of life.

想走 美国还拦着你不让走吗？

我不觉得是围城，我认识的留下来的留学生里，真没人是打心眼儿里想回国发展的。除了定期回国见见家人朋友，吃吃美食之外，还是在美国呆得好好的。

我觉得楼主不要这么悲观啊，凡事都要往好的方面考虑~~你能出国可是很多人的家庭都负担不起出国的钱~~你能抽H1B但是也有很多人为了找工作苦苦挣扎~~

抽不到h1b就可以离开围城了...

补充内容 (2019-5-4 03:45):
所以希望大家都抽到然后都在围城里呆着

不好意思，里面的为啥要出去？

manbp 发表于 2019-5-4 03:43
我觉得楼主不要这么悲观啊，凡事都要往好的方面考虑~~你能出国可是很多人的家庭都负担不起出国的钱~~你能抽 ...

嗯呢有道理，话说H1B可是有小绿卡之称呢，我们都是申请小绿卡的人哈哈哈

介世舒 发表于 2019-5-4 03:51
不好意思，里面的为啥要出去？

就是偶尔也会想家吧，想国内的家人，国内的淘宝和外卖之类的。

jonesG 发表于 2019-5-4 03:45
抽不到h1b就可以离开围城了...

补充内容 (2019-5-4 03:45):

哈哈哈好有道理，我竟无法反驳

hmmm 我觉得是里面的人选择不出去，外面的人想进进不去

换个想法，自己开心就好