• Think job searching as marketing, you are trying to sell your service to the company: your skill sets, your personality and your experience are the value, and the price that the employer paid is your salary and perks.
• Lack of confidence is easy to spot on, but how to start to build up your confidence?
[when you know something is good, but you don’t want to try it, maybe it’s because you are lacking confidence, and many time you should feel this way because you are not skilled in that area enough to try and get out of your comfort zone]
◦ 1. Education, the confidence boosting start from get educated and absorbing information and knowledges
◦ 2. Practice, Get more comfortable and more practice, so that you know what to expect and how to answer those questions
◦ 3. Don’t let every single rejection chip away your self-worth and your identity. [don’t tell yourself those mean things] don’t de-value yourself, because if you don’t believe yourself, then nobody else can see how much you worth.
◦ Create better mental habit so that you can work through the job searching process.
◦ Lack of confidence create more harm than you can imagine, it sips into everything you do. If you don’t believe the product (the service you can provide to the company) itself, how can you sell it to the company?
◦ Confidence is part of your brand and it influences your ability to move forward..google и
◦ Believe in yourself more than others..
◦ It is so so important to get this thing straight.
• Trap #1 Don’t compare yourself with others
◦ Bc you don’t know everything about the other person. 1point3acres.com
◦ You might think they are better than you…But the truth is you don’t know enough to make judgements
◦ So with that said, you should focus and hone in on your own ability of doing things • Trap #2 Over compensating for your lack of confidence. 1point3acres.com
◦ say no no to act cocky • trap #3 Downplay your success
◦ ”That wasn’t a big deal”, “It wasn’t anything that hard”
◦ Not showing your true value.google и • trap #4 Fearing you will be exposed as Fraud
◦ Imposter Syndrome . Χ
◦ Individual doubt their talent and accomplishments
◦ I don’t deserve xxx. Waral dи,
◦ I don’t even know xxx • Trap #5 Being paralyzed by potential Failure. Χ
◦ I don’t want to be rejected
◦ not giving 100%, not selling yourself because you don’t want to try hard and still fail • Trap #6 Listening to the inner critics
◦ Dwell in your faults ..
◦ you are not good enough. check 1point3acres for more.
◦ you are not worth hiring
This happen to everyone, it’s impossible to not make any mistakes.
But these can be solved by good habits.
Don’t expect an overnight change, this take some time to be changed.
Instead of feeling lack of something, you can highlight the areas that you do feel confident about!
Confidence is not something you can have, but it is something you need to earn.
Different situation, different personality, different strength might take different steps for people to get there.
. From 1point 3acres bbs
How confidence can help you to succeed?
Reason #1 Control your nerve better Reason #2 Be able to talk about yourself without feeling bragging Reason #3 Be able to connect with other people in the network with other Reason #4 Be able to win the interview Reason #5 Be able to sell yourself more effectively
. From 1point 3acres bbs
Confidence is a skill, just like anything else, if we don’t allow ourselves to do that, that ultimately will not help us.
note taking by hand, 看到地里很多同学都觉得没有自信，消极，所以就听了这个视频然后抄下来了note，大家觉得有用可以加米！ ..
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